Tuesday, 29 May 2018

Alamomin da zasu sa ka gane yarinya tana sonka


 
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Bayan namiji yafurta wa mace cewa yana sonta yawancin mata abunda sukeyi shine zata baka dama ne taga yanayin irin halayyarka sai ta yanke shawarar ta amice dakai ko kuma karta amince dakai. Maza dayawa sukan zama cikin tinani da kokonton ko sun sami nasarar sace zuciyan mace ta amince dasu din ko kuma dasaura, hakan yakan sa wasu su zama cikin damuwa sabida basusan matsayinsu ba.  Yawancin lokuta mace bazata cemaka tana sonka ba ko kuma ta amince dakai sai dai kagane hakan ta yanayin yanda kuke Magana da sauran mu’amala. Akwai alamu dazaka gane cewa yarinya tana sonka ko bata sonka.  Zamuyi bayani akan wasu daga cikin alamu da zaga gane cewa lalle yarinya tana sonka.

1.      Kunya
Idan yarinya tana sonka, zakaga tana kunyar ka, idan kana kusa daita zata zama takasa samu nitsuwa, zakaga tana wasu abubuwa irin wasa da hannunta, zakaga ta rike hannayenta tana Magana kasa kasa, kawai zaka lura cewa Kaman bata ma son hirar dakukeyi to bahaka bane alama ce datake nuna cewa kashiga  zuciyanta.
2.      Kallo
Idan yarinya tana sonka, ka faki ido ka kalleta zakaga cewa tana kallonka, wata idan kuka hada ido zata saukar dakanta, wata kuma dukda kun hada ido zata cigaba da kallon yan dakiku kadan sannan sai tayi murmushi takalli  kasa wanan alama ce babba dake nuna zukatanku sun amince da juna.

3.      Murmurshi da fara’a
Akwai yanayi na murmushi da fara’a wanda aka saba gani akwai kuma na daban, idan yarinya tana sonka duk lokacin da kazoo wajenta ko kuke waya zaka fahimci tana farin ciki da magana dakai koda kuwa bata cewa komai sabida kunya amma zaka fahimci cewa tana fara’a da farin ciki kuma zakaga tana ta murmushi koda bakace komai ba, kuma bataso katafi ko ku gama wayan koda bawani magana ta kirki kuke yi ba, wanan alamu ne na kasace zuciyarta.

4.      Damuwa dakai
Idan kaga yarinya ta damu dakai idan bata ganka ba tsawon lokaci kaga ta damu tana nemanka, bayan yan awanni kadan kaga tana kiranka a waya ko kuma idan baka kirata ba koda ace na tsawon awa 5 ne sai kaga ta damu, wanan jin muryar taka da take yana kwantar mata da hankali ne. Wanan alamu ne dake nuna lalle tana sonka.

5.      Idan yarinya tana sonka zakaga tana son magana dakai, komai kafada dai dai ne, duk wani labara dazaka bata na raha zakaga tana dariya koda abun bai bata dariya ba, kome kafada kuma bazai bata mata rai ba, tana karbar duk wani shawara daka bata wanan alama ce datake nuna yarinya tana sonka.

6.      Idan kaga kuna tare da yarinya tana baka dukkan hankalinta idan kuna magana, ko wayarta bata tabawa tabaka duka hankalinta tana sauraron abunda kake cewa to lalle yarinyar nan tana sonka.

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